Stalker ALERT

Dreams these two days are really weird. Dreamt of my college crush and ex boyfie. I don't understand why they are in my dreams. Wak kacau je. Can't really think straight for the last two days. Why come haunting me? I'm happy here. Is this a sign that I'm desperate for love? Oh NOO !!! I'm happy single for now thou there's a lil jealous when seeing my Wei Qi jie go pak tor with her boyfriend.

I think I know why those dreams haunted me for days. It's because in that dreams, me with crush and me with ex boyfie (different days) are very happy together. Shoo! Shoo! Go away!! Far far away! The story with crush is a sad one-way love story. *sobs sobs Ceh! I met crush in our Malaysian Studies. He's from other courses. Business, I think and I'm from Foundation in Science. He's sitting two chairs behind us in lecture hall with his friends and often came late for lecture. In daylight we didn't talk or anything. Just eyes wandering around. Hahaha But at night, I go off stalking his FB before sleep. Thou there's security there already but it's not that strong.

A pic of crushie

The handsome one on the right

 

At first, I don't know anything about him! Nothing! Just saw him twice in a week for Malaysian Studies and Moral Studies. But from those night stalking, I know his name (if he put the real name on FB la), his friends, his family (that he has a brother and two sister and one of them is working at Mount Elizabeth, Singapore as a nurse or something), his hometown and also his secondary school. So how cool am I?? Towards the end of the course, I take my first step by adding him in FB but he didn't approve. I still have my dignity k! So after that I cancel my friend request and delete him from my heart! Orang tak sudi takkan saya nak terhegeh-hegeh...

Enough of that. Those stalking days reminds me of how scary can a cyber world be. Basically, I know every single thing about him. Wouldn't it be scary to have some strangers know every single thing about you?? I think it's very scary lo. So gals, please tighten up your security, please?

As a pro stalker here, me would like to tell you

The "Follow" button is very scary.

Please turn it off! 

Unless you very 'hiao' and want many followers

Keep it there la...

Die don't come find me

 

And also when posting stuff and pictures,

 

Never put it on "Public"!

 

Lastly, the most important one is this!

 

Put it that only Friends of Friends can send you friend request.

This is to prevent strangers from adding you or even view your profile

 



And also, minimize your "About" especially your age, where you live, where you study and your family list!

Not forgetting, your profile picture. Put that private too! I had once a pedophile stalker who asked for my picture. I don't know him. I only add his as we shared the same hobby which is having rabbits as pets. But as days go by, he started to ask weird question like "Should he have phone sex with dunoo which girl who invite him?" or "Do we, girls cut our genitals or something?". I mean, The HELL??  In the state of shocked, I quickly blocked him and have all my profile picture on "Only Me". Who knows what he wants to do with my picture? He might put evil spirit on my picture of bomoh me. And then kill me and throw my body in the sea or feed the wild dogs or even better eat my body. YUCKS!!

You know you're security is tight enough when others view your profile, they'll see this

Nothing in the Timeline

 

A brief basic information of you

 

No pictures for view

And they can't see your friend list!

 

I appreciate my personal life very much. That's the main reason why I'm active Twitter nowadays. Twitter basically offered me a sense of security where I can enjoy sharing my daily activities with my very close friends only. At Facebook, if I added that person, that particular person can view my profile and I can view him. That doesn't happen in Twitter. it takes both side to approve to. It means that even if he approve me, it doesn't mean he can read my tweets. To read my tweets, I have to approve him first. Facebook is just way too scary. So be careful.

 

The main point here is that, NEVER add strangers! That is so NO-NO! You don't know who's that person. He might be a serial killer or a crazy person. So that's the reason why I don't add strangers with no face, weird name or a cartoon picture. I'm preventing myself from adding strangers into my life. As far as I'm concern, I shared everything on Facebook. My life, my friends and even my families. I surely wouldn't want someone to stalk on my families especially on my younger sisters!

 

Go checked your FB security now!! And please don't go FB adding me. Trust me to have almost 30 in the waiting list! Don't do it to avoid disappointment! =D

 

XOXO