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So how many perverts here that actually clicked on this because of the title??

Ladies, it's Pink October aka Breast Cancer Awareness Month!! Lets ignore all those dirty thoughts and start to get some info in the brain! 1 in 8 women in the US will develop invasive breast cancer during their lifetime.

Breast - is the upper ventral region of the torso, containing mammary gland in which can secrete milk in female

As long as you have breast, then you have the possibility of having breast cancer. So gents, it doesn't meant that you can't get breast cancer. An average of 2,200 American men is diagnosed with breast cancer yearly.

A telltale sign of having breast cancer include a lump in the breast or underarm that is permanent even after menstrual cycle, swelling in the area, pain and tenderness in the breast and much more. However, an approximate 9 out of 10 lumps found are not cancerous. So, don't worry much. To ease your mind, go get a check-up! Early detection has as high as 90% of recovery rate!

 

 

Lumps during menstrual are due to the hormone progesterone that makes the breast cells grow and blood vessels enlarge and fill with blood. At this time, breast often become engorged with fluid and may be tender and swollen.

If you're having any of this,

GET A DOCTOR!!

 

Women of all ages are encouraged to perform breast self-exams at least one a month as 40% of diagnosed breast cancer are detected by women who feel a lump. So establishing a regular beast-self exam is very important!

 

Don't have the time for breast-self exam? Well, think. Find a time or live with breast cancer. Having your breast chopped off! Choose wisely. It only takes a few minutes. You can do it either in your shower, in front of the mirror or even before going to bed. The best is doing it now while reading this!!

 

 In the shower

Using the pads of your fingers, move around your entire breast in a circular pattern moving from the outside to the center, checking the entire breast and armpit area. Check both breasts each month feeling for any lump, thickening, or hardened knot. Notice any changes and get lumps evaluated by your healthcare provider.

 



In front of the mirror

Visually inspect your breasts with your arms at your sides. Next, raise your arms high overhead. Look for any changes in the contour, any swelling, or dimpling of the skin, or changes in the nipples. Next, rest your palms on your hips and press firmly to flex your chest muscles. Left and right breasts will not exactly match — few women's breasts do, so look for any dimpling, puckering, or changes, particularly on one side.

Lying down / Sleeping

When lying down, the breast tissue spreads out evenly along the chest wall. Place a pillow under your right shoulder and your right arm behind your head. Using your left hand, move the pads of your fingers around your right breast gently in small circular motions covering the entire breast area and armpit. Use light, medium, and firm pressure. Squeeze the nipple; check for discharge and lumps. Repeat these steps for your left breast.



Prevention is better than cure. Thou breast cancer is a hereditary disease, it can be prevented by doing regular aerobic exercise, controlling your diet and also alcohol consumption. So, say no to alcohol !!

 

XOXO 

W.O.M.E.N

Last few days, we finished watching Hong Kong's serial drama. It's not a big deal but this particular story deeply inspired me. The awesome drama is Silver Spoon, Sterling Shackles.

 

 

The storyline is about an English educated lawyer, Chung Cheuk Man (Arthur) who had 4 wives. All in all, he only loves 2 of his wives which were his second wives, Aisin Gioro Yee-yin, a Manchu ex-princess of the fallen Qing Dynasty and her fifth wife, Hong Tsz-Kwan, a famous Peking opera singer. With a large family, chaos always happen due to jealousy.

 

Coming from Chinese background, Arthur displayed a very possessive husband and dad. He wants to control everything. His possessive leads to the destruction of the family. Neither one of his wives were happy. Due to jealous, his second wife blamed herself for everything. He neglected his third wife, forcing her to seek for pleasure outside while her 4th wife, wanted to fight for women's right and disobey him. His first wife? She was left out.

 

This story taught me that women in the past were very badly treated. The power was all in the hand of a person with dick whom you married. We are no more than just a place to seek pleasure. Even if you want to divorce your husband, you have to get his consent. And a man can never treat his wives fair.

 

Women these days definitely were treated with equal rights just like men. We have the rights for education, employment and much more. We no longer need to sit in the kitchen, serving our husband and children.

 

Nevertheless, it saddens me to see that teenage girls these days don't appreciate the power within them. More and more girls gave everything up for the sake of love. Education, family etc. Is that really worth it?

 

Daily, in the newspaper, there's seems to be a fixed column for finding missing girls who ran away with their boyfies and never return. Do you know how worried is your family especially your Mum? It feels as if they no longer appreciate what other women in the past fight for. They, women in the past, wanted to be free, having equal access to education while you guys ended school early to just get marry because you're blinded by love and get pregnant. How shameful?

 

Behind the family's conflicts, there's much more in this drama. To those who wants to watch, here's the link with English subtitles. Hope this drama inspired you as much as it inspired me.

 

Be a women who is a as strong as an ox and as graceful as a swan. #GoWomen

 

"Hands that swing the cradle can rock the world"

"Tangan yang menghayun bunian mampu mengoncang dunia"